Don't Date Someone Who Is Married

Should you date someone who is married? This seems like an obvious answer

, NO! However, many people get caught up in this situation and they are in for a great deal of problems because no matter how much fun the relationship is, you are not involved in a mature dating relationship and there are consequences.

If you are only interested in participating in a casual dating relationship, rather than a mature dating one, then you may have no qualms about dating a married person. Even if you do decide to go down this pathway, you will face consequences and contrary to your thinking, people will get hurt, even if no one (like this persons spouse or children or family members) finds out about the affair. For starters, you will get hurt because the odds of your married lover leaving his or her wife are slim to none. He or she may tell you that he or she is leaving the spouse, but usually that's a ploy to convince you to continue in the illicit affair.

Eventually your affair with this person will end and you will be left with a broken heart and generally, this person remains married to his or her spouse. Also, there could be children involved in this scenario and if you want to be coexisting in a mature dating relationship than you will not be participating in this affair because you wouldn't want to hurt your married partner's children. The children will be devastated if their parents ever got divorced because of this affair and you do not want to deal with the burden of being party to such a circumstance.

Being in a mature dating relationship involves open and honest communication and it means that not only are you open and honest with your partner, but you are not ashamed to let the world know that you are dating this person. If you are involved in an illicit affair, you are most likely not being honest with your family and friends and obviously, your partner is not being honest with his or her spouse. That dishonesty will cause major problems for you and your married partner and his or her spouse. Mature dating relationships are about sharing emotional intimacy with someone and not just having physical intimacy and passion. You need to be emotionally vulnerable with your partner in order to be fully participating in a mature dating relationship.

If you go down this road and decide to have an illicit affair, it will negatively impact your life and will not give you the joy and security that comes when you are involved in an open and honest mature dating relationship. You owe it to yourself to be true to yourself and what you believe in and hold dear and not to let everything fall to the wayside because you have a need to fulfill your physical desires. You are a three part being, with a body, soul, and a spirit and we need to meet the needs in all areas of our being in order to be fulfilled and fully participating in a mature dating relationship.

Don't Date Someone Who Is Married

By: orangecountypros

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