My girlfriend met a new guy a few weeks ago. They seemed to really hit it off. She gave him her number and was really excited. Next morning the first "Good Morning" message came through. Oh sweet she thought. Then another one, "Hope you are having a good day". Ok, still sweet, but quite boring. After that they just kept coming. I think by the end of the day she had about 12. Over kill for sure.
What did he just do by sending all those texts messages? He unknowingly told her he was needy and overly available. The mystery and challenge started fading as well as her initial attraction. A guy who won't stop texting is a huge turn off. You see it as showing interest, we wonder do you do this with every girl you meet.
We like texting, don't get me wrong. We like the flirty fun texts. The texts that make us smile. We are more likely to smile if you space your text messages. It uses anticipation and that builds attraction. Had the above guy waited maybe a day or so and given her some time to wonder was he interested or not, she would have been pleasantly surprised when she got the text. Making a girl wait is not a bad thing at all.
If you find yourself a perpetual texter, the best thing you can do is stop texting the girl all the time. You can't build up sexual tension and attraction like that. Chill out, relax. She will stick around a lot longer if you don't text the girl to death. Leave something to be desired later. Less really is more when it comes to texting girls.