Don't Let Her Take Advantage Of You
It happens to the best of us.
It happens to the best of us.
You think you're sooo smooth. You do everything right, she is all over you, and things advance very quickly.
The next thing you know, you are wrapped up in her life, her drama, and you are paying for everything the two of you do together.
She might even be LIVING at your place WITHOUT PAYING RENT!
Unbelievable...
How does this happen?
You don't have Vision.
It all comes from leadership.
But leadership requires a direction.
I have a letter from a former student that illustrates this perfectly. It was actually forwarded to me by Orleans because of how insightful it is into our students needs.
We all stay very close in touch with the feedback our students give us, so that we can meet their needs as efficiently as possible.
"Hey everyone at DiCarlo
You guys might remember me, my name's Carlo. I was a student of Orleans in May of last year.
I got a lot out of the bootcamp. It was a pleasure to watch Orleans in action. He's definitely the real deal.
He also pushed me just enough, but the most powerful part were the drills. The drills were mind-blowing. I could feel my mind pressuring some changes as the drills went on. After the program I saw the world through a whole new thing.
On top of that, I knew what was possible, thanks to Orleans. This guy is incredible - I mean, he's a smaller guy, on the skinny side for sure, but he is the real deal. I saw him doing some pretty impressive stuff with women and I thought holy crap "If he can do that, so can I" because I consider myself to be well built, good looking and I'm actually very successful financially.
But it's not even about that is it... I actually have found that having money is a BAD thing, or maybe you have a different opinion. Because when women find out what I do and how much money I have (I have a BMW and a beach-front condo), they seem to start acting "weird." Like they will start asking for favors and withholding physical affection, and other matter. I can't quite put a finger on it, but it's like I sleep with them, and then they wake up and see my wealth, and next thing you know, the games begin. I'm looking for the right woman in this story of my life. What do you suggest to find her?"
Malcolm K. (FL)
I already know what's going on here. I knew after the first couple paragraphs.
You are trying to use your wealth to attract women.
Maybe you're not aware of it, but you are sending this Message:
"I'm not that good enough when I was born. I'm only good enough with the material I've accumulated."
That's a really technical way of saying "I'm overcompensating for something."
The irony is that you have nothing to compensate for! You are probably an awesome guy if you're that successful!
Women do what we tell them.
Think that's misogynistic? Maybe.
But it goes for both sexes. Men do what you tell them as well. Let me explain.
People treat you how you tell them to.
But when you "tell" them, you do so with your PARALANGUAGE as well as your actual words.
So you should always be sending a message that you deserve respect, that you have a lot to offer the world and women, and that you're intentions are good.
When you do this people acquiesce to you. Women feel attracted to you. And men want to be affiliated with you.
Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo
by: Vin DiCarlo
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