It is your first date and you already have butterflies in your stomach
. The man of your dreams has finally asked you out and you cannot afford to make your first date with him a fiasco. The first thing that you should do is let your anxiety and worries take a backseat. There are many women who are desperately trying to seek the approval of the man whom they date at any cost. You should not worry and lose sleep over the wrong things. You need to be relaxed and not go overboard with unnecessary thoughts and worries.
First impressions do count but that does not mean that you have to behave like a supermodel or the mans ex-girlfriend. You should look good and groom well. You should choose the right clothes and the right perfume that suits you the best. Be careful and do not experiment with clothes or your hairstyle as the first date is not the date to experiment with. You do not have to be worried about what your man will think when he sees you. Be comfortable and do not pretend to be someone else. You should be yourself as that will make you relaxed and focused. Being yourself will also wipe off the anxiety and the tensions on your face. You should be a good sport as no one would like to hang around with someone who is drab and boring. Remember the date should be one that you should enjoy. So just be yourself and relax in the presence of your man.
If you are nervous to start up a conversation with your man you should choose an activity that will interest you both and keep you occupied. You can watch a movie, check out a new restaurant, go bowling together etc. Sharing a common interest will help you be comfortable and open up. You can converse on common topics and break the ice naturally.
When you are out on the date with your man you should take it easy and go with the flow. Anything can happen on a date and you should never lose your sense of humor or stop yourself from smiling. You should look and feel good as that satisfaction will reflect on your face. There can be instances of you spilling or dropping something, receiving bad service at the restaurant, facing a car breakdown etc. Whatever happens, you should remain calm and composed and not over-react emotionally. Such things happen and they are quite normal. The trick is that you should not let minor things upset you. Your first date should be success and when you follow the above tips it is bound to be a success without fail!
