Who's Hating. Who's Dating

You need to understand that people like me, a lot

. Girls and guys cannot seem to help themselves but to talk to me at the coffee shop, at work, at the gym, and of course, online. Over time, girls fall in love with me, and the guys well they like me a whole bunch until they find out I'm gay. Once they find out I'm gay ,they get real "Yo Bro" on me, but they're still friendly. I like to play and persuade the men that "deep deep down" they might be gay, but of course, they're not. It gives me a good laugh to watch them sweat it as they question their own sexuality for that one split second. Needless to say, I cannot help that I'm fabulous or that I have a lot of friends. With a sense of humor like mine, whats not to like?

The beauty of having a lot of male and female friends is that I am able to give an objective view on their lives without bias. To me, I do not see men or women. I see people and bilateral behavior. The real reason so many people like me is that I am a good listener. Basically, I am a shoulder for anybody who wants to talk about themselves. The most popular subject I get accosted with on a daily basis is dating.

"My boyfriend just got back from the army and he's changed."

"He used me for sex!"

"Things would be easier if I was gay. Can you believe what she did?"

"When I get close to a guy, I can't help but to run!"

I have over 500 friends. Of that, at least a quarter of them have talked to me about their relationships at one point or another. Id consider that Im a relationship "expert" based on the knowledge alone. Invariably, most of the dating issues I have been informed to end up in a bad place. The couple breaks up, people get hurt, and it is very sad. To be back to square one with no prospects is a challenging place to be. Nobody enjoys feeling like patient zero. Over time, the pain mends, the passion disregarded and your favorite moments becomes a vague memory. Then its time to move on. This is where I normally get bombarded with a new set of questions.

"Hey man, where do the hot chicas hang out? "

"Why cant I find a nice single guy? "

"I want a man with money"

After every relationship, we evolve as people. Our personality morphs into something new. We're able to make decisions on what we like or don't like based on our past experiences and so we become more picky. Past relationships have a knack for teaching us a little bit about ourselves, so this evolution makes sense. While this education and personal focus is a good thing, the problem with being picky is that we've made the number of eligible people in our personal world smaller. The more the requirements, the smaller the sample size. The smaller the sample size, the fewer eligible people. No eligibility, no quality.

My advice is always to expand their social circle. The larger your circle, the greater chance you'll find somebody who meets your increasing number of requirements. SURPRISE! The fastest, most affordable, effective and fun way to do this is to join an online dating website or make friends on a social network!

Some people did not follow my advice. And as they say, "online dating is for people who cannot find a date in the real world." Have you ever seen those T-shirts that say, I'm with Stupid? I wish I was wearing one every time a door knobs like that said that. Do they realize, they ARE one of these people? These people who "hate" on dating online do what they've always done. They prowl the same bars and nightclubs in their neighborhood with zero success. With growing requirements to satisfy, the odds are not only stacked against them, they're compounded to a level that is completely frustrating. Doing the same thing and expecting different results is crazy.

Time to try something new or ask for advice from someone else!

Who's Hating. Who's Dating

By: Marco Paulie

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