Unresolved past resentment causes people to break up easily and early in their relationship. As a couple, you can work to together to fix your relationship together.
This can be a learning experience and a process of bonding if a couple broke up too early due to one of the partner pulls away. This can be due to past resentment or experience that can make a person more wary or sensitive over similar situations that they had a bad experience with.
If you feel that your partner was the one who pulled away you can take some time to understand the person. Go slowly in your relationship so that your partner will open up to you. If you are the one who feels uncomfortable and did pull away and out resulting to your break up, you can take some time to evaluate and examine the root problem.
One of the common reason is past hurts from past relationships that is stopping you from having a smooth sailing new relationship. When you don't realize it or your partner is not aware and sensitive enough to understand, you can end up in going through relationships after relationships but never really moving forward and growing it. This results to fast and hasty break ups.
The only way is to face the problem and handle it. You can stay and let your partner know so that you can both work together and fix your relationship together. You need to open up to get the support and help of your partner if you really want to have a successful relationship with him.
At the moment, your current break up can be temporary. Pick yourself up and realize this problem of yours. Find ways to forgive yourself and take the effort to mend the broken piece of your relationship.
Assure your partner if you are ready or needed his help.Put in effort in opening up to resolve your differences. Let your partner know you need his support and put in the effort. It is possible to make mistakes and result to mini break ups, but apologize quickly until you completely resolve your past resentments. If your partner really love you and care for you, he will understand and help you pull through.
By realizing the mistake early and quickly fix it, you can save a wonderful and healthy relationship. Though past relationships did not work for you, it doesn't mean that all are the same. Give yourself a chance because you deserve it. It is possible to fix your break up together as a couple team.