While you might not wish to be confrontational right away you should separate yourself
for a few days and rebuild your ego a little bit before moving forward. For some women it might only take an afternoon and a few deep breaths to get back to where they once were and for others it may take a few days to a week. Once you start feeling better about yourself you will find that there is no need for you to make so many concessions in your relationship and no need to take the abuse and neglect from him any longer. It is then that you are on the right track to getting him back both quickly and easily.