Get Your Ex Back By Showing Him Or Her What They Are Missing
When you end a relationship, there is always the hard part of moving on
. They say that the first step to recovery would be denial. However, people linger in this step more than they should and that will lead to that person into thinking that he or she can get his or her ex back. Although this is actually still possible especially if you just broke up and the feelings for each other are still there and haven't completely faded.If you want to get your ex back, here are some things you should do:
1)Give your ex time and space.
This may seem a little odd because you might think that to get ex back, you should jump right into being seen and heard by him. The thing that you should realize is that it is actually better to give the person a little time and space because then the person will be able to clear his or her head. Remember the trick, when you let go of the person, that person may realize that he or she misses you and that he or she needs you in his or her life. Another thing that is effective in terms of giving a person time and space is that the person may think that you do not think about him or her anymore and you don't love him or her. When you stop chasing a dog, the dog will go back to you on his own. This is the same theory with people.
2)Think before you speak.
Do not be too desperate and say things that you might regret later on. When you are doing number 1 (give your ex time and space), think for yourself what went wrong. Analyze the whole situation for it might be able to help you to get your ex back. If possible, write down all the things that went wrong in the relationship. Make an action plan at the other column so you will know what to improve and what mistakes not to do again. If you want to get your ex back, do not simply think of the short term plans rather think of it in a long term perspective so that the moment you get your ex back, your relationship will last longer.
3)Get your ex back
Once you've done numbers 1 and 2, you can now try to connect or contact your ex again. In this way, you will be able to make sure that when you talk or see your ex again, you are in your best form. Do not show him or her any sign of weakness. The best revenge and best way to get your ex back is by looking good, feeling good and showing him and her that you are worth it. Show him or her what he or she has lost when he or she dumped you. Show him or her what she is missing and you can be sure that you will get your ex back sooner than later.
by: Robert Mcdonough