All of us at some point or the other in our lives have broken up with a lover
. It is a sick feeling after the relationship has been broken off especially if it was a long one and you were truly in love with the person. It is not necessary to think that once you have broken off, you do not stand a chance if your ex any more. You can get back your ex lover if you follow these tips carefully. Words of caution though; do not bother if you were in an abusive relationship. Your ex is not worth it.
The first tip is to relax and spend some time with yourself. This does not mean to sit and brood for hours wondering what went wrong. Use the time to search your heart honestly for the mistakes that you could have committed which could have led to the break up. If you sincerely want your ex back, then it is time that you made the necessary changes which can make your rekindled dating life a success.
Put away any communication device from your sight for a week or so by which time you would have curbed the urge to call up or text your ex every other second. Running behind your ex is only going to make her or him think that you are desperate; remember you are not after pity. She could even sue you for stalking her all the time if you keep following her around everywhere.
Stay away but keep in touch with common friends to know about your ex and what is happening in her life. Be courteous when you meet her at social gatherings and mingle with others without giving her too much attention. This will arouse the curiosity and interest of your ex and make there want to contact you once again. Behave like a gentleman and act in a mature manner; remember you are trying to win her back not lose her.
Make her notice the changes you have bought about in your life especially the bad habits if you ever had one. She will only be too please to come back into your life once again.
