Getting Him Back After A Breakup - How To Make Him Sorry For Breaking Your Heart
When you are thinking about getting him back after a breakup
, that is what you should do, think before you act. Right after he tells you he needs space or a break, you will be too emotionally charged to do anything but cry and beg. If you want to make him sorry for breaking your heart, you cannot let him see you this way. Instead you have to show him you don't care.Your ex boyfriend is expecting you to be in his face, sending emails, text messages and calling him day and night. Imagine his surprise if you do just the opposite. If you ignore him and appear to accept the breakup and move on, he will be the one that is confused. He was all prepared to see you lose your pride and dignity by telling him you cannot live without him.
Think of when you first met the man you fell in love with. You did not pursue him, you made him attracted to you and then became unattainable. This made your ex chase you. This is where most women become confused after a breakup. They think they have to do everything possible to get him back immediately. That will only make things worse.
Getting him back after a breakup should be no different than getting him in the beginning. At the time you met him, you were a happy confident woman that had her own life. Be that woman again and show your ex boyfriend you can have a life without him. Get involved with community work, or take some night classes. Go out with your friends and have a good time.
The way to make him sorry for breaking your heart is to make your ex see that you do not need him in your life. When you do not try to get him back, he will feel as if you are rejecting him. By moving on and ignoring him, he will feel like you are dumping him. Instead of pushing him away, you are pulling him back to you. Seeing how strong and mature you are will make him regret his decision to breakup with you.
That will put your ex boyfriend in the same position you were in after the breakup. He will feel you slipping away and he will not want to lose you. Feeling this way will put him into a turmoil. He wants you back, but his pride and ego make it hard for him to admit his mistake. He might send you an email and ask you how you are doing.
Ignore the email and do not take any phone calls from him. You won't lose him. Your actions will only make him more determined to get you back. If you stay strong he will have to swallow his pride and admit his mistake. This is not getting revenge, it is only showing him that he cannot mess with your heart.
Getting Him Back After A Breakup - How To Make Him Sorry For Breaking Your Heart
By: H. L. Archer