Getting Your Ex Back and All the Failed Hope Which Comes With It
Getting Your Ex Back and All the Failed Hope Which Comes With It
There is a great amount of sadness when the relationship comes to the end. The idea of getting your ex back consumes almost all of your emotional energy. All you can think about is how you can get your ex back in your life.
Yes, I am bitter
I am sure the title of this article sounds very bitter. I must agree with you on that fact. I am bitter because no matter the advice, which I have sought on getting my ex, back or failed relationships as a whole, it is always the same advice.
Are you not tired of the same advice over and over?
How many times have you read that if you want your ex back you must do this, do that and then perform this, am I the only one who is tired of the same ole crap for advice? I have decided that I am going to write my own advice on getting your ex back according my own thoughts and theories.
Getting your ex back is not always a "good" thing
Why is the advice always pertaining to "wanting your ex back"? What about advice for those who do not want their ex's back? This is my theory on wanting your ex back. More times to none if you were or are thinking logically, you would not want the person who dumped you or humiliated you back at all. Why do people generally, no matter how badly the ex was in dumping them more times to none want their ex's back? It makes no logical sense to me.
Focus on the bad behavior of your ex
Why would anyone want someone back who left us? Why would anyone want an ex back who cheated on them? Why would you disregard your own inner thoughts and feelings while concentrating on getting your ex back. I will tell you why; it is called low self-esteem.
Never forget about yourself when thinking of getting your ex back
You should never disregard yourself for the sake of anyone else other than your own flesh and blood. This entails family and more importantly children. Someone who is going to dump you while giving some lame excuse why they do not want you anymore no longer deserves your time or thoughts.
If someone loves you, they will not leave. True love entails hardships as well as atrocities and if someone is going to leave you at the first sign of trouble, they are not what you need for long term.
False hope breeds failure
Yes, I'm bitter in my advice of getting your ex back but let's face facts here; When you disregard the bad behavior of your ex who dumped you in the first place, you very well might get your ex back but the hope of a newfound relationship will bring false hope. False hope will doom your determination in making the relationship work with your ex even if you get your ex back.
Be true to yourself as compared to ignoring the bad behavior of your ex. No man or woman is worth our emotional well-being. We must first love ourselves while viewing the situation from a logical standpoint. Do not ignore the warning signs for you will end up paying for this dearly in the future.