Guaranteed Breaking Up Advice: Breaking Up the Right Way
Author: TW Jackson
Author: TW Jackson
It's hard to imagine that there really is guaranteed breaking up advice out there or even a right way to break up. If you notice Hollywood very much though the box offices are filled with all kinds of movies about the wrong way to call things off. If you do these things it might not be all "hearts and flowers" between the two of you but you're far less likely to go through some huge scene that will give Hollywood a run for its money. Don't make a Production out of Your Breakup This is not something you want to set the stage for. It's something you want to find a neutral location and then "just do it." The sooner you get it out the sooner you can both move on to more productive things in your lives. There's no need to lay out an elaborate scene or try to find a location that will leave little room for causing a scene. What you do want to do is scout out a location that is neutral to the two of you. Don't do it at home for either of you. Your homes are the places where you should both feel safe and sheltered from the world not the place where the world falls apart. Keep it Simple When Breaking Up Make it short. It won't be sweet. There's nothing sweet about breaking up. It will be better though, for both of you if you don't try to draw it out or keep it going. It's an ending. You want to end it quickly and then make a hasty exit so your ex has time to let it sink in without your presence confusing the emotional landscape. Don't Make the Breakup all about You It's tempting. It's easy. But, it's wrong. This is the time to be as selfless as possible. Calling it quits is hurtful enough. If you make the entire breakup about you it will heap more pain on for your ex. Be empathetic and try to put yourself in your ex's shoes. Make this about your ex and not about yourself and you'll both feel better (albeit only slightly) about the way things ended between the two of you in the morning. There you have it. This guaranteed breaking up advice won't leave you hating each other tomorrow. If you use an ounce of kindness in the breakup process, avoid offering phony reasons for calling things off, and treat your ex fairly you might be able to avoid a major meltdown.About the Author:
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