Healthy Relationships Require Analyzing, Compromising, And Reconciling Skills

Have you ever thought back on intimate relationships that you had in the past

? The ones that ended. All of us have an ex girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, or husband that we had to break up with, voluntarily or involuntarily. Chances are that you would have liked to stay in one of those relationships. I know there are a couple of crushes that I often wonder about. At the time, the relationship could have been salvaged if I had known a single thing about what I was doing. This article will tell how you need to analyze, compromise, and reconcile in your relationships in order to keep you with you spouse or significant other

What should I have done in those old relationships? I should have learned a few things about what it means to be in a mutual relationship. Young ignorance is the end to many boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, as well as, husband/wife relationships. People go into these things with an idea of how things are going to be. It never turns out quite the way you envision. Life is not a fairy tale, or very rarely is it a fairy tale. People would be wise to learn that tip. But that is the fault with youth is ignornance or lack of experience.

So, what are the keys to a good relationship? I believe it starts when you are dating. Do not just go through your relationship as if there is nothing to worry about. You need to really analyze how compatible you really are with each other. You can love many different people in this world. You can also love a person and be in total misery as far as how happy that person makes you. If you don't believe that, I would just point out the number of people that are in love and must get married, and then within a year are divorced.

The wedding vow, "As long as you both shall live", needs to be considered. It is a fact that some unions are not healthy. Do not get married if there is any doubt. However, I believe once you are married and especially once you have children you should do whatever is necessary to make the marriage last. Some things you will have to compromise. There is just no way to avoid compromise. If you cannot compromise on things like the amount of time you spend on your extra curricular activities versus the time you spend with your fiance or spouse, then you should not get married. You are not ready.

You will also have to learn some serious reconciliation skills. You cannot go through a life long relationship with out being able to reconcile your differences and move forward. Most people do not know how to handle the reconciliation process and therefore end up pushing their spouse or significant other away.

by: Chris Abbott

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