If you want help getting your ex back, keep reading because I will give you some simple but effective steps to do so
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The first step is to evaluate what went wrong in your relationship especially how you contributed to the break up. You have to take steps to change and improve yourself to stand any chance of getting your ex back. So be honest about your own faults and do something about them. During this time, it is best that you do not contact your ex but allow yourself and your ex the time to think things through.
The second step is to get yourself involved in something that will keep you occupied. You probably have more time on your hands now that you are not with your ex anymore so use that time to get to know others or participate in something youre interested in. But stay in touch with your ex and his or her family and close friends. Do not complain about your ex to any of them but just tell them about whats been going on in your life. Word will get around to your ex and you want to give the impression that you are alright despite the breakup. This also adds a bit of mystery about yourself to your ex. This makes you more attractive.
When the time is right, make an appointment to get together with your ex again. It can be any occasion that is casual. The purpose is just to have some fun together and break the ice. It can even be in a group. This will help you re-bond together. Do this for a few times.
Eventually, you will have the occasion to talk together alone. At that time, you can tell your ex how you have changed. You also need to make apologies for what your have done or said wrong. Showing that you take responsibility for your past words and actions will go a long way to getting back together again. The most important thing to impress upon your ex is that he or she is the most important and best person for you. Its better to say this than to say that you are the best person for your ex. By reiterating your exs importance to you, you reinforce his or her value and make your ex feel good.
Finally, go ahead and romance your ex just like you did when you dated in the past. This not only brings back the memories but will also re-ignite the loving feelings. Soon, you will be back with your ex as a couple again.