How Can the "No Contact" Rule Help Me to Get My Ex Back?
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How Can the "No Contact" Rule Help Me to Get My Ex Back
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"I want my ex back." That may be the most prominent thought on your troubled and lonely mind. The two of you may have had the cause to break up for 'God knows what' reason, and at the end of the day you really felt bad and now you want to get your ex back.
This desire to have your ex back may have pushed you to hastily want to contact him/her. It is a normal reaction, but you need to learn to control your emotion and not contact your ex. Hasty decisions and actions never yield any good fruit.
You may wonder how the 'no contact rule' can help out in getting him back. By not contacting your ex, you are giving him/her the opportunity to reflect on what had happened between you. Your ex will be able to reason on his/her own without the interference of your calls.
The absence of your call will also stir up deep interest for you in your ex. He/she will be surprised at your sudden silence and will want to know what it is that is now taking your mind away from him/her. This will make your ex to want to seek you out.
With the help of 'time' your ex will be able to get over the pains and bitterness he/she had felt during the break up. By the time the pains have passed, your ex will be able to sit down tight to think about what happened between the two of you. Believe you me, your ex will find the separation very pointless and will desire reconciliation with you.
You and your ex must have had a swell time together while your relationship lasted. The thought of those sweet times will haunt your ex during this period of 'no contact' and you can be sure that he/she will love to relive those good times. You on the verge of getting your ex back.