To some guys, talking to girls is straightforward and simply comes naturally
. But there are a lot of men out there (I have been one of them) that become genuinely nervous and shy when it comes to chatting up or approaching women.
It may be truly frustrating when your out and about with all your friends for a Friday night and their off conversing and dancing together with ladies and you left propping up the bar or perhaps sat at the table having a beverage for company.
Even if a girl had been giving me personally the eye or a friend had told me that girl in the pink outfit fancies you I'd still freeze. I would imagine, Yeah right she wouldnt be interested in me or I dont know what to say?
But you realize there comes a time when you have to do something about it. Or your life will pass you by and your come home following a night and wonder what if! What if Id simply said hi how are you? can I buy you a drink?.
Every person gets knocked back by girls, I got knocked back a few times when I was in my young teens and that was probably the reason why I lacked self esteem.
However you have to get on top of that, and you will. You could practice on an ugly girl and build yourself up to the Prom Queen as you get more confident. (only joking) But I always felt more comfortable when I was talking to ladies I didnt like.
Like I said earlier everyone can be knocked back, but if you talk to 10 girls in one evening, I wager one would be interested if not more.
Possessing good looks and plenty of cash always works, but if you dont look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney then you should be confident and have a personality as you cant rely on your looks lol.
Well I dont look like a movie star Im just an average Joe.
Confidence has always been wanting for me when it came to pulling women.
For most of my life I found talking to girls and approaching them really hard. I was shy by nature in many areas of my life, but when it came to women I was a real loser Lol
Even when I was in my early teens I didnt know how to kiss a girl never mind get one in to bed!
I was all ways asking myself How do you get a girl to like you?.