How Does A Guy Act When He's Being Unfaithful?
How Does A Guy Act When He's Being Unfaithful
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I believe that many people have a stereotypical idea of how an unfaithfulguy acts that isn't always 100% accurate. People often tell me that when they picture a cheater, they'll picture someone who won't look you in the eye. They envision someone who will shift uncomfortably while looking at the ground. They assume that this man will feed you silly excuses or will suddenly change the way that he's acting toward you.
And sometimes, some of these things are accurate. Many women suddenly notice an undeniably change in the way that their guy is acting. And, they are sometimes right when they think that this can mean that he's cheating. But, not all men show the stereotypical signs or behaviors of being unfaithful. The actions of a cheating guy truly run the gauntlet and vary depending on the man himself. I will discuss this more in the following article.
Typical Behavior You Sometimes See When A Guy Is Being Unfaithful: The stereotypes that I mentioned above are likely stereotypes because some of them are accurate some of the time. Men who are cheating are very often caught in lies and they very often arouse suspicion because their behavior suddenly changes.
The guy who used to be so attentive and loving might now not seem nearly as interested anymore. He might suddenly be distant or cold. He may even be critical or cruel. He may seem very distracted or moody. All of these behaviors make sense, of course because if he is cheating and he has things other than you on his mind. Juggling all of these things creates stress and conflict and this will usually have to manifest itself in some way.
People often tell me that they can literally feel the difference. What they often mean is that they can sense a lack of enthusiasm or a difference when physical contact or intimacy takes place. Before any cheating took place, a guy may have put something behind it when he kissed or interacted with you. But, when he's cheating, you may just get a brush across the cheek or a little peck and you can't help but notice the difference.
Sometimes, the changes that you notice the most won't be the things that have to do with his actions or his personality directly. Instead, you may well notice his absence. Since he's carrying on with two people, it's unlikely that he will be physically or even emotionally as present as he once was.
You may also notice things that just seem off or odd. Examples might mean him taking a sudden interest in his appearance, weight, or clothes. Or he may suddenly want to attend to his own laundry, not want you near his phone, or be safeguarding his computer.
Sometimes, The Changes In Your Guy's Behavior Might Not Be Anything That You Can Place Your Finger Upon: Some guys are very careful to cover their tracks then they are cheating. Occasionally, I hear from women who was blindsided by the cheating because they guy was very careful not to give off any clues. Some men are actually more attentive and loving when they are cheating because they are being careful not to raise your suspicions.
I've actually had people tell me that their sex life was very active and satisfying when their guy was cheating. This is sometimes by design. Other times, the cheating almost acts as stimulant because it is risky behavior that spices things up for him.
I tell you this because I want for you to know that a guy who is cheating can act in a number of different ways. It's often not what you see but what you feel that draws your attention to the fact that something is potentially wrong.
I was in this same situation a short time ago. My heart knew that he was cheating, but my head didn't want to acknowledge it. But after thinking on it for a long time, I decided that I really wanted to know the truth, no matter what that truth was. I learned how to get concrete information and proof that my husband thought that he had hid and erased. Once I presented this to him, he had no choice but to come clean. And I learned exactly what I feared. You can read a very personal story at http://catch-the-cheating.com/
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