The first set of assumptions is that you don't want a guy who has not grown up and is looking for a second mommy. Also that the guy is worth holding onto.
You don't want to handle a guy as somebody who needs to be told what to do all the time. You are looking for trouble when you start to ride herd over a guy all the time. similarly,if you are in the habit of criticizing his every action and habit. If this is your game plan then you probably will be seeing him heading out the door real soon. Guys really don't want to be shaped into the perfect boyfriend or even husband. It is pretty much "What you see is what you get" and you'll just have to accept those terms if you want him.
A Guy's Wish List
1. Men seek out a woman who enjoys their sense of humor and who laughs with them.
2. Guys really need to please a woman. If this is a real problem it could end a relationship.
3. A man seeks a woman's acknowledgment of their accomplishments as well as being recognized.
4. They want a woman who is feminine and who acts and dresses as such.
5. They want to understand what really moves the woman and warms her heart.
Now That You Got Him What Are You Gonna Do With Him?
The role for the woman in the relationship is to establish standards. This is because the woman is the heart of any relationship. This is because men are not very adept at matters of the heart. That is because men can't express their feelings or emotions very well. The first building block in the relationship is for the woman to create an aura about her where the man wants to be with her all the time. She accomplishes this by establishing her own self respect and confidence that is exuded to the people around her. You likely have seen these type of women who walk into a room and people are instantly attracted to her. She is a woman of self assurance and confidence. The man can't help but become fascinated with her and her charm. It is a man's desire to please a woman who has these qualities. You will be truly surprised how far the man will go to reach the standards.
Here Ended the Lesson Attracting a guy isn't difficult once you comprehend what they are seeking. Many woman think that they have no power in the game of love. They feel they have to be someone else just to attract the man. Nothing could be further from the truth. The best relationships are built on mutual respect and love and fulfilling the needs of each other. If you do this properly, then the next time you have to attract a guy may be your last.