How To Attract And Pick Up A Younger Woman
The majority of men would prefer to be dating younger women
. The reality is, as men, we're hard-wired to want to hook up with attractive younger women -- and younger women are indeed hard-wired to prefer relationships with older guys.
Most guys, however, are clueless about the actual process of how to meet and
how to date younger women. The predicament for most guys is that once they get to a certain age, they start to imagine they're simply too old, or not "cool" enough, to flirt with younger women and seduce them.
So let me share some tips with you about using body language to flirt, since this is extremely important when you are trying to build a sexual connection with a younger woman.
Usually, a successful seduction begins with eye contact. Making eye contact with her, and smiling, is one of the surest ways to display confidence and establish a connection.
"The eyes are the window to the soul," as they say, and this type of contact can be as influential as touch. Then, as the conversation begins and you keep it flowing in the right direction, you've got to begin escalating in a physical sense.
In essence, this means you touch her and use flirtatious body language. None of this touching is going to happen in an aggressive way; in fact, when you do it right, she won't even consciously notice that you're touching her.
But on a deeper subsconsious level, she will start to feel physically comfortable with you and your touch.
Picture the following scenario, which just about every dude has experienced:
You take a girl out on a date, and you have a pleasant time with her. It seems to be going fine. But in the back of your mind, you're wondering about how tonight is going to end.
When you drop her off at her house..or when you walk her out to her car...are you going to attempt to kiss her? Of course, you WANT that first kiss, but you might be nervous that she will reject it...what if she's not ready for a kiss yet? What if she thinks you're moving "too fast?"
This is why in most cases, the date simply concludes with a friendly handshake, or hug, or a quick kiss on the cheek -- and nothing more.
Or about this scenario? You take a girl to the movies, and when you sit down, you want to put your arm around her... or snuggle up close to her...but you don't want her to feel weird or uncomfortable. So for the next two hours, you don't touch her... and the whole time, you are wishing that you could be.
Look, the easiest way to get past these barriers is to simply lay a "foundation" of subtle body contact.
Every time you use the power of touch with a woman in the right way, it's a slow, natural progression -- and remember, you have to initiate it.
She'll feel "ready" to hold hands with her...give you the first kiss...and ultimately sleep with you...if you slowly ESCALATE and build body contact in a subtle way. Basically, you want her to feel comfortable with your touch. In a sense, you're using body language flirting to "warm her up"...
Now how do you accomplish this, exactly? Here are few body language flirting tips...
How To Date Younger Women, Tip #1: When you're talking to her, when she says something funny, or something that you really agree with, give her a "high-five." Don't slap her hand (like you would do with your buddies). Put your hand up, she puts her hand up, and then you gently clasp her hand -- intertwine your fingers with hers -- and hold it for a couple of seconds before letting go.
It should feel completely natural -- consciously, she shouldn't even notice that you just made physical contact.
Likewise, when you want to emphasize something you are telling her, you can reach over and place your hand on her forearm, or on her hand, for a few seconds. This is just going to be a light touch. Then, slowly move your hand away.
How To Date Younger Women, Tip #2: Instead of touching her hand, if you're sitting down with her you can touch her knee for a moment. While you do this, maintain eye contact with her. Again, she won't be THINKING about the fact that you are touching her knee, but her brain is registering it...and she is feeling at ease with it.
How To Date Younger Women, Tip #3: When you are holding open the door for her, you simply place your hand on the small of her back (gently) and subtly guide her through the door.
Her brain will pick up this signal: that you're a strong, masculine presence who is there to provide safety and security. In other words, she senses that she is with a MAN. You're not a nervous, harmless "nice guy" who avoids physical contact.
You can increase the frequency and duration of your touches as the conversation continue to flow. Your touches will grow more intimate and powerful.
Touch her hand and forearm a few times in the initital fifteen minutes, and after 30 minutes, it won't feel unnatural to hold her hand while you talk to her... It won't feel unnatural for you to reach over and gently brush the hair away from her eyes, and put it behind her ear...
And it won't feel unnatural for you to lean in very close and whisper in her ear when you have something "private" to tell her. This can really give a girl goose bumps... in a good way;)
This is all laying the foundation for you to kiss her. After I've done all the steps above, I like to give her a soft kiss on the cheek after I've just said something in her ear.
After I do this, I withdraw my touch and return to whatever we were talking about. The "kiss" is no big deal. It feels like part of a natural, comfortable progression.
This is the essence of using body language and touch to build a sexual connection with a younger woman. Ultimately, you're going to make her feel comfortable being with you in every sense...but only if you lay this foundation.
Now, while this subtle body contact is occurring, the other valuable tactic is to use "Strategic Conversation" to drive up her interest and attraction...
How To Attract And Pick Up A Younger Woman
By: John Lyons
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