How To Deal With Common Relationship Deal Breakers

Though every person is different, there are always things in a relationship that are deal breakers for one person or the other

. Regardless of the person, relationships share many characteristics across the board, and some of the common relationship deal breakers make their way into many peoples lives at one point or another. Handling these deal breakers in a way that ensures the relationship ends on a positive rather than a negative is important, as is determining if something you previously thought was a deal breaker is still that way.

Though deal breakers come in as many varieties are there are people on this Earth, there are some that remain consistent throughout many relationship scenarios. Deal breakers range from things as superficial as bad teeth to more important character flaws such as selfishness, which is why its important to really take a look at yourself and determine whats a true deal breaker and what is simply something you dont like but can get over.

Superficial things are generally the ones that arent true deal breakers and should never really come up if you truly like the person you are in a relationship. Many times if someone says that eye color or how someone dresses is a deal breaker then they are likely using that as a cover for something more serious that they do not like about the person or they are projecting their own insecurities on their partner. In these situations its important for the person who is looking to get out of the relationship to be honest with themselves about why they want out. The person on the receiving end of the relationship breakup will appreciate your honesty and you can feel better knowing that you were open with the person.

However, some of the most common, true deal breakers include more personal character issues such as: selfishness, control issues, lack of commitment, unwillingness to be supportive, or shaming. All of these issues can and should be deal breakers, though how you deal with them is up to the individual.

If you get into a relationship and these deal breakers enter the equation, then its important to first discuss the issue with your partner to determine if its a true character trait or if it was something that came out in a bad moment. If you feel its something that is more permanent, then its important for you to understand that without (and sometimes with) proper discussions and potentially even counseling its not something thats likely to fix itself. Being honest about this from the get-go and knowing when to get out is important to long-term relationship happiness for both people involved. The better you know your partner the better youll know if they are willing to work on themselves or not.

Its important to note that if you are on the receiving end of a breakup for superficial reasons then you probably dodged a bullet by getting out of a relationship with someone who cant see past physical or surface-level attributes.

by: Tim Roberts

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