How To Flirt With Women

It is no secret that although flirting is one of the best ways attract women

, most guys are too afraid or have no notion at all on flirting successfully. Most men just want to be the nice subservient guys and wondered why they are not successful in getting women's number or dates.

It never fails to amaze me how so many men are afraid of flirting with women. Flirting with women can be fun and exciting and women like it too! However, to be a good flirt does require some work and practice but once you have mastered the techniques how to flirting, you will be amazed at your success rate with women.

First and foremost, you must understand that women enjoy flirting as it provides an air of sexual tension. It is sexually exciting and definitely more fun for them than in the company of nice subservient guys.

Why is this fun for women? Well, it is like as if they were little girls again when little boys teased them to get their attention. Deep down inside, all women are little girls at heart.

However, do watch your intention. This is because most men flirt with the expectation that they will succeed in getting a girl's number or securing a date. You should change this mindset. Your objective in flirting should be just to make her enjoy herself and have fun with you and this will gradually builds up her attraction for you. By displaying this attitude and vibes, your flirting will be more natural and she will feel comfortable with you because she will instinctively know that you are interested in her well being and not just about getting under her skirt.

Do you remember when as little boys, you and your friends used to tease some little girls at the playground and they will come chasing you and later when you made up became good friends? Well, it is exactly the same thing with adult women. You tease them, they respond. You joke about them and they reciprocate by joking about you and in the end, everyone ended up chatting and teasing like old friends. That is fun, isn't it?

Compare this with the typical nice guy approach which everybody is using. A typical scenario will be guy meets girl, guy listens to girl agreeing to everything that she says, guys talks about himself. How boring can it get? Where is the sexual tension and the fun? How can this sparks sexual chemistry?

You may make some flirting mistakes at first. Not to worry. Practice is the key. Start going out often and approach women and practice. However, before doing that, do some research on the techniques of flirting and teasing. You will be more confident when you are better prepared and girls just simply cannot resist confident guys.

So go ahead and practice your cheeky grin, wink or smirk and see what happens. Compose your own original witty pick up lines and jokes. Then get her laughing. The gauge is that when you can make girls laugh, half the battle is already won. So start flirting with women now and make it a natural habit and soon, you will have them chasing after you instead of the other way round for most "nice guys".

by: Chris Chew

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