Looking for the best way to get back with your ex can be a real challenge. Your mind is probably racing around in circles at the moment. It is very common to go from wanting your ex back, to wanting to never see them again to wanting one more chance to make things right in a matter of minutes.
By using proven tips you can work through this process and learn "how to get back with my ex".
Look for ways to get support, approaching their family or friends depending on your relationship with them can be very helpful. They will normally support their friend and family member but if you can convince them to give you another chance with your ex, their influence can make all the difference.
Show that although you want to get back with your ex, you are not going to be a complete walkover. This is the time where you do not beg or plead for them to take you back. Your ex will be more impressed if you show personal strength, no one is attracted to a needy person who is begging to be taken back. If an apology is required now is the time to apologize.
Try and be positive. This is the part that is very difficult but if you give yourself small steps to achieve and focus on these small goals it will help you keep positive. Reward yourself every time you achieve one of these goals. People are attracted to a positive attitude especially when things are tough and your ex is also going to be impressed
Think of ways you can feel better, a new hair style, new clothes, going to the gym and spending times with positive friends.
While you and you ex are apart let them see how you are moving on with your life and growing as a person. This is the first stage in getting your ex back.