How To Get Your Guy Back Again And Right Where You Want Him!

All good relationships call for sacrifice and compromise whether you feel like it or not

, that's just the way it is. And yes, the give and take is difficult sometimes, but if you're both playing the game right, the payoff is well worth it. Of course, it's rare when both people in a couple are immediately playing the game right, so what do you do when it all goes wrong? You're heartbroken over a break up and you want nothing more than to get your guy back again. Well, nothing about fixing a broken relationship is simple and done in an instant, but if you can keep an open mind and be willing to learn and grow, you have an excellent chance to get your guy back again and be even happier than before!

The first thing you must do is what you probably don't feel like doing, and that's taking some time to look closely at what caused the break up in the first place. Generally, as a female you are better able to do this than a guy, so use those powers of observation that you were born with and analyze what went wrong. To get your guy back again, you will need to understand what he found missing or difficult in your relationship. Maybe you were too demanding of all his time? Perhaps you were jealous or critical? Maybe it was something else, but you must be willing to look at yourself and see what you might not want to see. He probably did all kinds of annoying things too, but at this moment put that aside and just look at your part in it. Fixing a broken relationship takes fixing one person at a time. Fix him later!

Once you have analyzed your part of the relationship, don't try to jump right back into the comfort of being a couple too soon! You will want to play just a little hard to get to spark his interest again. If this seems like a game, it 's because it is! It's the same game of romance that has been going on since we all lived in caves, and it works! To get your guy back again you will need to hold back, stop calling and texting, be mysteriously unavailable and watch what happens! Don't forget that men are hunters, and there is nothing more fun to hunt than an illusive female! Once you spark his interest again you can use all your new found insights to begin to change the problems that were in your relationship before. There is no need to immediately start telling your guy all about it, because that's too much information, too soon, and you want to let the mystery that surrounds you simmer. He will instantly sense that you have changed, so you don't have to say a word. Plenty of time for talking later!

These are just a few of the beginning steps you can take to get your guy back again, right where you want him. Shakespeare said "The course of true love is never easy!" and he was right! But it is worth it and it can be fun, even if it is challenging, so keep an open mind and heart and be willing to learn and grow. Love will be your reward.

by: Kristin Alexander

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