How To Have Longer Sex - This Secret Works Every Time!
How To Have Longer Sex - This Secret Works Every Time!
If you have ever tried specialty condoms, numbing sprays or other sexual products that claim to lengthen your sexual experience, you have probably discovered that some of these work and others don't. However, there is a way to get longer, better and more intense sex each and every time, without having to rely on any of those aids.
Lasting Longer Through Arousal Control
There are four stages to full male sexual arousal. By being aware of which stage your body is in, and understanding how to maintain control of that stage, you will be able to lengthen the time of your arousal. The four stages are basically the different levels of excitement and stimulation your body go through during lovemaking.
The Stages Of Sexual Arousal (Simplified)
Stage one is the beginning of your arousal. As you get excited, you start to get hard and become erect. After this, the body naturally reaches stage two, which is a heightened state of arousal. Your erection is fuller, but you still have complete control. Stage three is the next stage, and you are in stage three when the sexual experience becomes intense. Your penis is fully erect and the glands expand, causing extreme sensitivity. This is the point where many men lose control. When that happens, and you go over the top, you are in stage four. All of the previous stages escalate your nervous system to the breaking point and you release through ejaculation.
For men with premature ejaculation, the time between stage one and stage four can occur in under a minute, causing extreme dissatisfaction to both you and your partner. To get the most out of sex, the goal is to stretch out the four stages for as long as possible.
Going from stage one to stage two is something you may not be able to control. But by maintaining stage two for extended periods of time, you can increase your stamina dramatically. Because once you are in stage three, you will reach the finish line quickly, no matter how much control you exert.
Achieving "Arousal Longevity"
So how do you make this happen? Simple, relax. Direct all of your attention on giving not taking. That's what I said. The key is to concentrate on giving, not taking, sexual satisfaction.
Take your time to please your woman. If you are focusing on giving her the ultimate in sexual pleasure, you will not be thinking of ejaculation. Use your hands all over her body, and discover her erogenous zones. Please her with your lips, fingers and tongue from her head to her toes. Stay in this stage for as long as she can stand it. And then, and only then, allow yourself to go to the next level.
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