How To Make Him Commit To A Relationship With You

Have you ever found yourself dating a great guy

, but unable to make him commit to your relationship? Have you found lots of guys who long to hang out, or are happy to have casual sex with you, but balk at the idea of something more substantial? Are you ready to learn to take things to the next level? Read on for the secret of turning those fun flings into real relationshipsIt's a cliche to say of that a man always wants what he can't have, but this simple truism is the key to making a man want a relationship with you. If he feels that you're under his thumb, willing to do whatever he asks for because you have no alternatives, then of course he's not going to commit. Why does he have to? You're not going anywhere.

Desperation is the world's worst perfume. Don't wear it. If a man gets even a whiff of it he will run for the hills, and with good reason. Do you find yourself attracted to a man who is desperate to have you in his life? Of course not. So why would a man feel that way about you? If you want to make him commit, you have to purge desperation from your life.

But it's not easy to fake. It's so hard to fake, in fact, that it's crazy to try. Instead, what you need to do is to organize your life so that you're too busy to be desperate. Who wants to sit around waiting for a man to commit when you could be out there having the time of your life?

So you need to get out there and throw yourself into life - even if it means meeting new men - not to rub it in his, but for you. You do is to you can feel like you have options. Then the choice is his: he can commit to a relationship with you, or he can watch you meet some other fantastic man who has no qualms about giving you what you deserve.

The wonderful thing about this approach is that even if it doesn't make him commit, it puts you in a great place, with a wonderful full life that makes you happy, surrounded by friends and other potential suitors. Don't waste time waiting around. Throw yourself into life, today... you may be pleasantly surprised by what it does to the man in your life.

by: add_mario

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