How To Romance Your Sweetheart And Heat Up Any Dwindling Flame In Your Relationship
Romance. Can it be discussed? It has to be experienced
, isn't it? But, let us talk of romance, because we cannot avoid discussion about it. Let those in love, decide how correct is the below discussion on communication in romance. Romancing is not a science, but an art. When you talk to your beloved, you talk not only with your words, but with your eyes and your body language.
1) What it means to romance your sweetheart?
Everything takes part in communication with your sweetheart. How does one talk to one's beloved? Most of the lovers swoon at the sight of their beloved. How do we expect them to talk? But their sweetheart wants to talk and they want to talk. They both want to share everything in each other life.
They share their dreams, they share their agonies and pains and they share their goals and failures. They share everything, because they are two bodies, but one heart.
Romance has its own flavor, a different flavor. Romance is a different emotion compared to all other emotions. It is much different compared to emotions such as anger etc. They are all negative, but romance is a positive emotion or feeling. In romance, one ignores every fault of his or her sweetheart and only finds everything good and glorifies it.
In love, the afternoon sun is as beautiful as the sunset. Such is the wonder of romance that it changes a person totally.
Coming back to communication, how does one do it in romance? Does one convey love every single day? Does one talk only of love and nothing else. Otherwise it may kill the romantic mood! Does one only dream of good things and avoid every talk of anything negative? What and how does one communicate while romancing?
Yes, it is true that most of the romantic lovers talk only of positive things and avoid everything negative. It is also true that talk is mostly about love, because they are romancing. Isn't it? It is true that the couples dream of great things and avoid contemplating any negatives.
Romance is different. In romancing there is no place for anything that may kill the mood. Romance means talking of moon, and not the sun. But you can talk of sunsets. Romance does not think about the fate of fallen flowers, but only admires the beauty of flowers smiling on the branch. Romance is different and it is great. The world already has innumerable problems, and romance is much needed to create a positive atmosphere. Romance is a dream.
2) How to rekindle the fire in your Relationship?
Tired of dead-end date nights? Is your sweetheart idea of an exciting Friday night date a pizza and watching satellite television? I am not suggesting spending time at home alone together cannot be romantic.
But, come on; let us be honest. I doubt if having remnants of tomato sauce on the corners of your mouth or the sound of advertisements for deodorant in the background will lead to anything but a headache and indigestion.
If you have been married for awhile, it is understandable that quite a few Friday nights might be spent going to the supermarket. But, let us start concentrating on doing something more creative to unleash the romantic side of your relationship.
If you do not start putting some creative romantic ideas into the relationship, it could soon end up in the recycling bin.
From time to time, all of us need a few suggestions on how to warm up our love life. With the pressures of everyday life upon us, we need to reserve some special time with our sweetheart to promote good mental, physical and emotional well-being.
Do you want to surprise your sweetheart? Do you want to bring back those great Friday night dates you once had when you first met? Try writing a note designating the coming Friday as your date night. Leave it in their car before they go to work in the morning. In the note you tell them you have reserved this night to have dinner out in a nice restaurant (no take out).
Cancellations are not aloud; no movies, no television. Drive somewhere safe and quiet (of course, this could be hard depending where you live) but make an attempt anyway. Just park the car and start holding hands. Try cuddling and start talking softly to each about intimate things. Do not talk about work, the kids (if you have them) and all the other typical problems you share each and every day. Forget everything for the moment and go back to the time when you had your first date together, without the anxiety of course.
Then, let romance take its course. Well, where it leads can certainly heat up any dwindling flame. Do it for your sweetheart. They will thank you for it many, many times.
by: Tenzin Pemo
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