How To Pickup Women What Pickup Lines Are Effective?
If youre thinking that there are some sort of super effective pickup lines or series
of words that you can say to a girl that is just going to make her swoon then, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you are sorely mistaken. Most women who are worth pursing have heard just about every line that has been thought up and they are on the lookout for players and insincere guys.
So, what do you do? How can you effectively pickup girls without knowing what to say to break the ice? This is what separates the players from the wanna-bes. A true pickup artist know, and you should too, that in order to get past the first two minutes of meeting a girl you need to be able to be flexible. You need to be able to strike up a conversation with a girl and keep it moving in a desirable direction. You need to be able think on your feet.
Most newbies are looking for a shortcut or the perfect line to completely blow her away when they meet her. Of course, this is still possible and most guys that are really good at picking up women have a catalog of tons of lines that they use or ways of starting a conversation but the traditional pickup lines are long dead. The use of those old lame lines will kill any chance that you even might have had even if she does think that youre cute or hot or at least interesting.
Lameness is the number one killer of any potential relationship and most traditional pickup lines are quite lame. Just like any good boy scout, it is always helpful to be prepared but canned responses and lines will almost always come off as fake. Women have a unique ability to smell bs a mile away. Its almost like an additional sense that they have that men lack.
So learn to think on your feet. Yes, educate yourself on what women want to hear and modify that information to come up with your own patented pickup lines or set of topics that you can use to make yourself stand out from the crowd of other guys that are hitting on that beauty that you want to make your own. Let those other guys crash and burn and become unique. She will notice it and you will be a stand out in a field of players because youre not going to come across as a player. Youll just be you and shell never have to know your secret.