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How To Score The Asian Women Of Your Dreams - 10 Tips For Attracting Hot Asian Women

If you're especially attracted to hot Asian women

, I can most certainly understand. I'm a big fan of beautiful Asian women and have dated a wide variety -- including Korean, Chinese, Japanese, Filipina, Indonesian and Thai girls.

Asian women make us feel this powerful attraction for a lot of different reasons, and there are also many reasons why the right Asian girl can make an ideal partner for you. But if you're to make these girls feel attracted to YOU, you've got to understand what makes them "tick." So here are ten tips that will help you make the right first impression on beautiful Asian women, and move things towards romance...

1. Understand that the term "Asian Women" contains many different sub-categories. While most Western men think the "Asian" label mostly refers to Chinese or Japanese girls, it actually includes more than 40 nationalities and ethnic groups. In the Philippines alone, where there's been a lot of mixing of cultures over the country's history, you'll meet taller women with fair complexions, along with shorter women with dark skin. The point is, it can be hard to tell exactly which country a lot of Asian women are from -- so don't try to guess. This can make you appear ignorant, and you might even offend her. Instead you can say, "You have a really unique look, where is your family from originally?"

Also, on this subject, you should never mention to her that you've dated other Asian women before. This is not going to make her feel like you "understand" her. Actually, there's a good chance that she will feel resentful. She needs to feel that she is unique and special to you. Also, Asian women who live in Western countries are very sensitive to the idea of "yellow fever" -- Western guys who have a fetish for Asian girls. If she gets the sense that you're only into her because of her race, you can forget about hooking up with her.


2. The stereotype that Asian women are meek and submissive is generally false, however Asian women do want a masculine man -- one who can play the role of the provider and protector. This is a big reason why so many Western men -- who live in "feminized" cultures where women want to wear the pants -- find Asian women to be so alluring. They are purely feminine, and desire a man who exudes masculinity.

This means that with hot Asian girls, you can't be co-dependent or clingy. Asian men don't behave this way and if you do, it's going to turn off Asian women. They want to feel SAFE with a man who is a decision-maker and protector, and who is in control of his emotions. Asian women won't feel comfortable with a guy who is needy, overly sensitive, and complains about his problems.

3. Be a gentleman with a bit of a "bad boy" edge. Cool Hollywood movie stars are worshipped in Asia -- the guys who are strong, masculine and can take care of business, but have a boyish charm and a softer side. Think about the onscreen personalities of Harrison Ford, Keanu Reeves, Leonardo Dicaprio, Matt Damon, Brad Pitt, and George Clooney. (All of them are revered in Asia.) You must be confident and emotionally stable. Asian women are turned off by insecure, angry or jealous men.

4. You must be intelligent and preferably well-educated, since Asians put a high value on education and wisdom. Also, have various passions and pursuits that you can share with her. You want her to get the sense that she will become a better, more knowledgeable and well-rounded person by being with you.

5. Always behave yourself in public. Guys who are loud, rude, or "show off" in public aren't going to get anywhere with hot Asian girls. They also appreciate proper manners, such as helping them to remove their coat, or pulling out their chair and helping them to sit down in a restaurant.

6. Demonstrate some familiarity with her country, its culture, and her religion. Having an appreciation for her native cuisine is also very helpful. If she is Westernized, she probably eats Western food, generally--but when she's with her family, they surely still cook their favorite exotic dishes. Learning to cook one of her favorite ethnic meals for her will score you big points.

7. Next, a quick word of advice for you guys who are meeting Asian women on internet dating sites: you need to see her on webcam as soon as possible. There are literally millions of women on these websites who are searching for a foreign boyfriend or husband -- which is fine if their intentions are honest, but in many cases they're only looking to score financial support for themselves and their families. Some girls will use phony profile pictures; if the girl looks TOO gorgeous in her pic, it may not be her! And if she makes up excuses why she can't chat with you on a webcam, she's probably trying to hide something. Virtually all of the internet cafes in Asia nowadays have webcams which are extremely cheap to use. If she won't show herself to you, it's probably because she looks nowhere near as good as she does in her picture -- or "she" might actually be a "he!"

8. You cannot come across as a player, a playboy, or a guy who isn't interested in the possibility of a serious relationship. When you're getting to know an Asian women, she has to know that you have the capacity to be serious and committed. They're thinking of their future, and for a lot of Asian women their ideal future involves having a half-Caucasian child. You don't need to talk about your desire to get married on the first date, but you can mention how you're interested in this someday.


9. Asian women will be impressed if you own some of the latest high tech gadgets -- a cool phone, mp3 player, digital camera, and so on. Asian men usually know a lot about this stuff. Also, when you're knowledgable about computers and technology -- even if this just means owning a few cool gadgets -- Asian women take this as a sign that you are a smart person who is moving up in life. In Asia, being proficient with computers and technology is a sign of a successful person.

10. And here's my last piece of advice on being an "Asian babe magnet": you must understand that Asian women have very strong ties to their family. In some Asian cultures the woman is expected to support the rest of the family, even though they're perfectly capable of making their own money. Even though you might want to, never tell her to grow up and be independent and turn her back on her family. This will only create friction between you and her.

How To Score The Asian Women Of Your Dreams - 10 Tips For Attracting Hot Asian Women

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