How To Stop A Break Up - 3 Ways To Win Him Back By Stopping What Seems Inevitable From Happening
How To Stop A Break Up - 3 Ways To Win Him Back By Stopping What Seems Inevitable From Happening
How to stop a break up? A question asked by many girls who don't know what to do in such a situation. There could be plenty of reasons your ex boyfriend decided to leave and instead of tackling all those issues one by one, here are 3 ways to win him back by stopping what seems inevitable from happening.
Tip #1: Men like 'fresh' stuff
Aren't you sick and tired of feeling sorry for yourself after being hinted by your boyfriend that he is about to dump you? If so, what you need is a total revamp of your outlook. Change your
hair color
dressing style
make up
hair style, etc.
Do something outrageous that you've always dreamed about and let the wild side of you out. You see, men react well to things they find pleasing to their eyes. Being visual creatures, men will be intrigued by changes to the norm.
Let him notice the change in your outlook on his own instead of asking him to see if there is anything different about you - because it will seem like you are trying too hard.
Tip #2: Stop trying so hard to make things right
Do you accept that it is not possible for us to control the events and circumstances that occur in our lives? If you can accept this, then do you realize that it is not possible for you to fix the situation because there are factors that are out of your control? The factor I am referring to, is your boyfriend's thoughts and feelings. If you try to fix the situation, you will ultimately end up trying to 'fix' his thoughts and feelings, which is not possible, so just stop.
When you stop trying so hard to make things right, it eases the pressure you are feeling and your boyfriend will appreciate this period of peace and quietness. It also shifts the favour into your court because he realizes that you are doing your best to ease the pressure and he will appreciate it.
Tip #3: Get love and support from the people who care about you
While getting over the thought of a break up is tough, it's allowed me to build closer relationships with my existing friends and family. But it wasn't always this way - because when I was younger, I used to hide my pain from my family and friends; I didn't want them to worry about me. It was only later on that I discovered how much easier life became when I opened up and shared my feelings with them - because they were extra nice to me and did me lots of favors like:
buying me small gifts,
offering to deliver takeaway to me,
asking me out during the weekends, which helped me to see that there was still a wonderful life here waiting for me to receive it.
Hence, I encourage you to lean on your friends and family for their love and support, and trust that they will do their best to help you through this emotionally draining period of your life. It will give you exactly the thing you need to stay strong during this period of time to learn and implement these tips on how to stop a break up.