If you're in the position of having a cheating husband
, there are few options open for you. You should think long and hard before you make your final decision. It is somehow difficult to make sure he doesn't cheat again.
Because there is no short cut in making your relationship free from cheating, at least learn the things that will help you reduce the risk of being cheated by your husband again.
Really talk about what's going on. Get to the heart of the matter and find out why he felt the need to cheat. It's possible he doesn't even know himself. You both need to find out what it was that the other woman offered him that he didn't feel he was getting from you. You will only be able to fix the problem if you can identify what the problem is.
He has needs that need to be filled if you want him to stay happy with the relationship for any length of time. Make sure his needs are met and he'll stay by your side for the long haul. More importantly, he'll love to be by your side. Discuss what works best for both of you and find a very happy and healthy medium.
Keep him busy making plans for the future. Let him enjoy a satisfying and adventurous love life and basking in the glow of your adoration. He'll be putty in your hands and your hands alone. Work up to giving small gifts or tokens to make him feel special. Making him feel good should be the priority and not about you making yourself feel better.
Show your appreciation. Don't just appreciate the outcome. Learn to appreciate the effort. It's a lesson in masculine psychology that you should take to heart. He needs to be appreciated for the effort of doing things rather than being told how he's failed or not measured up. Don't tell him what he did wrong. Thank him for what he tried to do and see what an amazing difference it makes in your marriage and how he responds to you.