How To Use Guilt To Get Your Ex Back! This Might Be A Bit Sneaky But Works Really Well
Guilt is a very negative emotion, but when used constructively it can have very positive effects
. There are certain things that you need to keep in mind that while you use guilt you have to project your guilt as a positive emotion and not a negative one.Sometimes just being nice is enough to make a person feel ridden with guilt. Here a few ways that show you how to use guilt positively and get your ex back.
Don't be an emotional wreck: The first thing to do to make your ex feel guilty is to not be a complete emotional wreck. Name calling, blaming your ex or calling him/her up and crying about how miserable they have made you feel must be avoided at all costs.
If he/she sees that despite the obvious pain that he/she has caused you, you are not being the hysterical or out-of-control person that he expected you to be, he/she will begin to feel guilty for his/her actions.
Do better in your relationships: Use this time to focus on your other relationships like those with friends, family or at work. Try to focus on these relationships and make them better. Eventually the news of your new found and real relationships will get to your ex.
This will make your ex feel guilty as he/she will feel that it was your relationship with him/her that was holding you back and was not letting you evolve as a person.
Look happier: Happiness is a very positive quality, one which instantly attracts people to you. When even after a breakup you come across as a happy person your ex is left feeling quite high and dry.
You see, they expect you to be sad and miserable and when you do the exact opposite they gradually begin to question their responsibility in making you unhappy.
By being happy outside of your relationship you will play on your ex's guilt, as he/she will wonder if it was them that kept you form being such a happy and fun person. They will also begin to feel guilty for not being happy for you.
Be forgiving: When your ex comes to talk to you deliver the ultimate guilt blow by forgiving him/her. By giving him/her a warm and positive response you will make him/her feel guilty for treating you the way they did.
Love and forgiveness are hard to come by and when you tell your ex that you understand why he/she broke up with you, you immediately make a very positive impression on his/her mind.
Displaying these positive emotions and by being the bigger person, you will b able to make your ex see what a huge mistake he/she has made by breaking up with you and soon you will be on your path of a patch up.
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by: Rahul Talwar