How Will I Know If My Ex Truly Still Wants Me Back?
How Will I Know If My Ex Truly Still Wants Me Back
?Does my ex still have the hots for me? You are going to ask yourself that kind of question if you will have some observations or you notice when your ex starts to provide you with hints or begins giving his or her attention to you again. But don't you have the compliance and be very positive about it yet; you can expect something but do not be very optimistic.
Some hints will show you how much your ex wants to get you back and some of them are just very easy to distinguish. And if you yourself want to be back with the ex, you should take it slow and test the waters first. You can act as if you're not interested with him or her anymore, play like you're that not interested to be back with your ex (but of course, you should not overdo it). This kind of action towards an ex is more effective to get his or her attention again. So take it slow, do not just take the plunge because your ex will be more challenged if you're playing hard to get.
It is a normal result if you and your ex will be missing each other after you two have broken the relationship up, you tend to think about getting back with the ex. It most likely happens if the relationship had lived for quite a long time. You two will not totally forget one another because of the special things that have happened between you in the past. Sometimes, you or your ex even realize after seeing each other in a long time, you ask yourselves why you even decided to discontinue your relationship back then. You might not have any idea about it, but you and your ex might be having the same thoughts.
There are times that an ex showing interest about a reunion or reconciliation will mean a joke or they're just playing around and not being serious about it. That's why you need to really confirm it, your ex might just be fooling you or making you hope for nothing by making you fall in love with him or her but your love will be unrequited in the end. Other exes who are showing some interest of getting back together might just be doing it because they have no one to find anymore. And much worse are those who are aspiring to get back with their exes are just doing it to plot vengeance against the one they loved because of something bad that he or she experienced during their relationship. So, be sure to read the cards first before betting.
You are not alone in thinking and asking if your ex wants to really be back with you, just make sure that your instincts are working and confirm it that you two really deserve a second shot and that he or she is true to you. Now, if you have confirmed that he or she is really truthful about his or her feelings for you, you can already start with your scheme of making him or her know that you don't really need him or her in your life but I tell you, do not overdo it. Just make him or her want you more, because this act will kind of save you if in the end he or she just plays a game with you or not ready to get back with ex.