How do you tell if a guy is interested in you - the 8 steps test!
How do you tell if a guy is interested in you - the 8 steps test!
Sometimes we, girls, have a crush on a guy but we are not extremely sure if the attraction is mutual, other times, we might see an unusual behavior from someone from the opposite sex and it makes us wonder if this person likes us! Anything can be hidden except for emotional attraction. If you find two or more of the following signs in the person you have in mind, then congratulations you have a crush!
He is different when you're around: If you observe that guy with his friends and see that he is acting in a given way and then when you're around there is totally a different "version" of him then this guy likes you. Golden Rule: you never feel totally comfortable when the person you like is around, you get extremely self-conscious and ten to over-read the reactions of the one you like.
He looks better when you are around: If you catch your guy fixing his hair or his clothes the minute you appear, this guy is totally into you. If your guys wears relatively nicer clothes and hairstyle when he's in the places where he sees you, then he wants to impress you because you MEAN to him.
He wants to know if you're taken: If he asks your friends implicitly or explicitly about whether or not you are in a relationship, then no doubt that he likes you. If he looks irritated when you flirt with another guy even if it's only a joke, it's not because he is weird, it's simply because he is afraid that you like that other guy. A guy who likes a girl and who still doesn't know her feelings towards him will always be insecure.
He has that "look" in his eyes: you can use each part of your body to hide your feeling but your eyes will always betray you. If you catch his eyes moving towards your direction very often that's a visible sign. If he briskly moves his eyes to the other direction to avoid an eye contact with you, it means he's hiding something which is obviously his feelings.
He wants to get closer to you: If he likes you, he always has the intention to "be with you" so he wants to know you more to find out what the perfect first step would be. First, he would try to add you to his facebook or myspace profile, that's a way to know basic information about you and gives him many chances to get closer to you by commenting on your pictures or your statuses. If he likes you, he'll ask your friends about you and he would listen when you talk or when you're the subject of the discussion.
He wants to see you: he likes you, he won't miss a gathering you appear in. Hein factmight even go to your college or your school pretending he's meeting other friends there but in reality all he wants to do is -see- you.
He shares the same interests with you: if you randomly say the name of your favorite rock band in a gathering and the next day find that he put a song of this given band as his ringtone then he obviously wants to impress you by showing you how much alike you both are.
He befriends your close friends: as we said earlier, his interest in you will make him want to know more about you and what you like. Nothing can do this previous task better than your close friends and certainly it's easier for him to take first steps with them than with you.
So if his signs are clear and the attraction is mutual, do not hesitate: talk to him, respond to his signs and keep your heart open for a new love adventure. If you're still not sure about his feelings or if those signed showed you that he's not interested in you, it's not the end of the path yet! You might in this case consult a dating expert who has seen many cases like yours and helped them become a happy couple with the person they chose. My recommended expert would be April Masini, feel free to visit her website:
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