How our words can Lead us to Ruination
How our words can Lead us to Ruination
How our words can Lead us to Ruination
Many people give up trying to harness the power of the Law of Attraction after a very short period of time,usually a month or two. They say that it's just not working in their lives. This type of thinking is by no means uncommon, and it serves to bring us farther and farther from what we desire in our lives.
The truth is that the Law of Attraction is working in all our lives, but, for most, it is acting negatively. This is a scary thought to digest for us, but it must be accepted as truth.
It is our words that prevent us from creating good in our lives, our words that keep us from manifesting the desires of our heart. Note this formula:
Words=Thoughts=Feelings=Belief
We, as a species, are quick to put ourselves down, and also to label ourselves. Our task is to stop these two actions.
Stopping these two actions will bring immediate change into your life, and lead to abundance and happiness.
Negative words from our mouths become like weights on our body. They keep us down and keep us in the same state that we are already unhappy in for years, sometimes forever. It cannot be stressed enough just how powerful words are.
The best way to spot any self deprecatory comments is to listen to other people talk. People are quick to put themselves down, or label themselves in work and also social situations,
People are under the misunderstanding that words cannot hurt you; to a certain degree this is true. Words, by themselves, cannot hard you; It is the BELIEF in these words that damage us, and control us until we change them.
Lets look at some examples:
A child falls a lot and exhibits uncoordinated movement over a stretch of time. His parents label him as clumsy. The child has been labeled Clumsy
by a trusted source, so he begins to believe he is clumsy. At the instant belief sets into the mind it becomes part of the believer. He now believes he is clumsy and may even reinforce this further by labeling himself: "Don't mind me, I have always been clumsy", or any similar statement. As longer as the believer continues to believe he is clumsy, or stupid, or inadequate, or unattractive He will not disappoint his label, and will continue that way until the chain is broken.
People who state that they "Can't get up in the morning on time" -Are always Late!
People who say: "I am not a morning person" -Will continue to dread mornings!
People who say " I am a terrible speller" Will continue to misspell words!
People who always say : " I'm Tired" ( i know you must know some of these) Will always be tired
People who say: " I am terrible at Math" will remain that way until that label is removed.
We could list these negative labels for hours But you get the point -As we believe so shall we be.
If you desire money and you are saying "I'm broke", "I'm Struggling", " I can't get my head above water". or whatever the label may be,
what you are doing is building a brick wall between you and your desire.
Here is some examples I have heard from family and friends recently:
"I have bad Lungs"
I have terrible Acne"
" That's just the way I am"
" I know I will never have any money"
" I am a bad speller"
These remarks are like Brands on your body. When you announce an all encompassing statement link" I will never have any money" then the ever obedient law of attraction will take that remark at face value and bring situation after situation into your life that will prevent you from ever having any money~
The Law of Attraction is doing exactly what it is supposed to be doing: Manifesting your beliefs in your reality. It is giving exactly what you believe in your heart. The Law of Attraction is neutral to right and wrong; it doesn't analyze your words at all
but takes them at face value. If you are saying that you are lazy and don't want to do anything, The Law of Attraction will bring situations to backup your lazy belief .
So, to be perfectly clear, do not speak ill of yourself in any way, even if you are saying something just to get a laugh.
Even if you do not have a quarter in your pocket, Do not speak about it in negative terms, try not to talk or think about it at all. It will do no good and only make you feel worse. For years and years, I struggled with money and I would constantly be talking about how broke I was. After a while, my friends, boss, and co-workers knew about me being broke, and they too would joke about it. This is the soundest advise you could possibly hear:
Do not speak ill of yourself or your situations. Remember this:
Words=Thoughts=Feelings=Belief.
We can take that phrase one more step too:
Words=Thoughts=Feelings=Belief=REALITY
Yes, we are all imperfect beings. and we all have things that could be improved upon, but vocalizing these things is harmful, and will only bring more of the same; conversely, by not speaking ill of ourselves, we begin the clearing process that we all need to manifest abundance in our lives.
Speak only positive about yourself or speak not at all about yourself and you will see a marked change in your life. This is not hard to do.
Be aware of what your saying. When you check yourself before a self deprecatory remark forces you to think about other things, I used to speak all kind of negative things, now I speak none at all, and on the occasions when something non-edifying is about to leave my mouth, I quickly redirect it.
I tell you here and now that this minor adjustment to your life will pay you huge dividends, right away.
Start today. There will never be a perfect day to start anything so now is the right time. Just be aware of what you are saying. If you slip up that is perfectly fine, just keep trying. When you start catching yourself before making a damaging statement it will feel great. Keep your hopes and dreams alive and keep negativity out of your mouth and you will see a remarkable change in your life right away.
Fran Perrone, Nov 6th, 2010
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