How to Ask a Woman Out On a Date and Make Sure She Says Yes
How to Ask a Woman Out On a Date and Make Sure She Says Yes
One of the hardest things that a guy can do is to ask a woman out on the first date. It's not always easy and it can do a lot of damage to your ego is you end up getting a rejection from a woman. There is no way that you can get a 100 percent guarantee that she will end up saying yes to you, but there are a lot of things that you can do to make it hard for her not to say yes to you. Asking a woman out on a date is something that you really need to be able to handle if you are going to end up having any kind of success when it comes to dating.
Part of the reason why it can end up being so hard to ask a woman out on a date is when you allow yourself to build up this image of her being the perfect woman for you. When you do that, you are putting her up on a pedestal, whether you mean to or not. And when you put her up higher than yourself, it's only natural that you are going to feel like you have to suck up or be perfect for her to want to date you.
Here are a few tips on how to ask a woman out on a date and make sure she says YES to you:
1) You have to approach her with confidence if you want to hear her say yes.
It's funny how a woman can kind of like you already, but if you approach her totally lacking confidence and then ask her out on a date, you are probably going to get a big NO from her. Gear yourself up and make sure that you are confident, as confident as you can be before you decide to ask a woman out on a date.
2) You need to make sure that you get your timing right when you ask her out.
Timing is an important thing. Ask a woman out on a date too fast and you probably have not built up enough rapprt and attraction to compel her to say yes to you. Wait too long to ask a woman out on a date and you run the risk of her losing any feelings or attraction that she might have for you. You need to make sure that the timing is right if you want to hear her say yes to you.
3) Be prepared to hear her say No and then adapt.
This is another thing that you need to know. Sometimes you will get an initial no from a woman but she will say yes to you at a later time. If you allow her saying no to you to bring down your confidence or allow you to feel like your ego has been fractured, then you probably won't try again. You need to be able to deal with an initial no from a woman and then be able to adapt to ask her out on a date at a later time.
