How to Get My Ex Back Even When He Has Moved On
How to Get My Ex Back Even When He Has Moved On
You've lost your boyfriend? Want some advice on how to get my ex back even when he's moved on? Get up from there. Quit moping, crying, and feeling depressed. Even though your ex may be gone for now, he's not necessarily gone forever. Here you'll find some quick and simple tools for learning how to get your ex back even if he has moved on to another woman and another relationship.
1 The very first step is to find a way to persuade him that he's still in love with you. Unless he's dead set about not wanting to continue a relationship with you, there are so many things you can do at this point to get your ex back.
2 The best, and most advantageous, thing you can do is to become his friend. If you're a good friend of his, showing him you understand who he is and that you're capable of having drama-free time with him, you'll put yourself in a much better position. Let him know you can joke around and enjoy a healthy friendship with him. This will ease the drama and stress of the breakup. When its all calmed down he may realize that he really does want you around as his girlfriend again.
3 Be sweet and kind during all of your communications with your ex boyfriend, but play a little hard to get, as well. You want him to want you but you also need him to think he can't have you just yet. Don't view this as playing games because that would definitely be counterproductive. But you do want him to remain interested in this process.
4 Even though you want to play a little hard to get, you want your ex boyfriend to know that you are available. You might incorporate a little bit of flirting and spending time out with your friends. Conjuring up a little jealousy won't hurt. But be very careful with this. If he thinks you're not available, he wont be motivated to continue pursuing you.
5 Definitely don't act desperate. Doing this will cause your ex boyfriend to take your presence in his life for granted. Play things real cool. Make him think you're okay with all of the events that have happened thus far and that you're okay with moving on. Acting desperate will run him off. That will give you the opposite results of what you want.
6 When you're around him and think he's looking at you or you feel like he is, look at him out of the corner of your eye. This way of looking at him will let him know that you're conscious of him but a little coy about it. You want to encourage the mystery.
7 If you're able to casually bring it up, remind him of some of the good times you had together. These positive memories should help him remember how good you two were together. You don't want to bring up any negative memories. Those will only remind him of the bad stuff which won't do your cause any good.