You and your ex just had a fight and many things were said that you are sorry for now. You said it was over and now you want to take those words back. You're feeling lonely and depressed and did not realize just how much you cared until that person is out of your life. You never knew you could be made to feel this way about anyone. Your ex can see how depressed you are and may be feeling good about the fact that you could be made to feel lonely and depressed.
You don't want your ex to see you feeling this way. The best thing for you to do at the moment is to look as if you can live your life well without your ex. You want to look as though every member of the opposite sex wants you as their own. This kind of action should bring on just a bit of jealousy. A little bit of jealousy can sometimes be all you need to get your ex back.
If you pace is a little slower and more confident you will attract people wherever you go. You ex will see your confidence and see a person she had not seen before. This is better then going with your gut instincts and playing on emotions. No one likes a person that is totally dependent on someone else. If you show your ex that you are an independent and confident individual you have a better chance of winning that person back.
Strength and independence will have your ex saying "what have I given up here?" It will make your ex wonder if they lost something they will regret losing and will try to make up for the argument and the words that were so final.
In order to get your ex back you have to make a plan and follow that plan through. When making your plan do not be overly aggressive or too humble be strong but kind. Once your ex sees the person that they are seeing for the first time, they will realize you can live without them and that will not do. You ex will not want you to live without him or
