How to Talk With Your Husband About Improving Your Marriage
Improving your marriage is and should be easy because you probably know exactly what needs to be changed
. The problem is your husband probably doesn't have a clue what's wrong with your marriage. In fact, he probably thinks everything is fine as is.
The biggest hurdle you need to get him to understand is that in order for everything to be fine, you both need to be content. You can work on improving your marriage by getting him to see how painless change can be and how great your marriage can and will be.
So how do you talk with your husband about improving your marriage?
The first thing I would recommend is that you prepare him for the conversation. The way you do so is stop letting him believe that everything is wonderful. I'm not suggesting that you complain or nag but simply be honest.
If you are unhappy because of the way things are going in your marriage you need to let your husband know and the sooner the better.
I would sit down beside him one evening, gently grab his hand with a smile on my face ask him if we could set aside some time in the next couple of days to talk.
Before you talk to him come up with the 3 most important things you need changed and how you believe these changes will improve your marriage.
So here's how I would approach it and how I see the conversation going with the end goal being improving your marriage;
"Hi Honey! I have been thinking about our marriage lately and I'd like to know if there is anything you would like to see change or me do differently to make our relationship better."?
His response! "No, sweetie, I can't see you doing anything different because I love you just the way you are. I couldn't be happier"!
Your response! "Well, Honey I have been thinking about improving our marriage and I want your thoughts on the following 3 things;"
Here's where you explain the following;
What is missing in your marriage that's making you unhappy.
What you would like to see different in your marriage.
Why you think these changes will improve your marriage.
Now, should your husband have his own list of ways for improving your marriage then that's even better. Your conversation can be more meaningful and effective.
Improving your marriage may seem like getting 4 wisdom teeth pulled at the same time but it won't be as painful if done with love, respect and commitment to each other.
There are many ways to start improving your marriage and talking to your husband in the right setting and right way will get you the marriage you desire and deserve.
Please don't wait until your anger, frustration and unhappiness cause you to no longer want or care about
improving your marriage.
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Saving Your Marriage Today How to Talk With Your Husband About Improving Your Marriage
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