How to Talk With a Man and Get Closer to Him
How to Talk With a Man and Get Closer to Him
When it comes to talking, men and women can seem like they are from opposite ends of the spectrum. And in some ways, they really ARE. If you are going to get that closeness that you are after in a relationship with a man, then you have to know how to talk to him in a way that he finds almost irresistible. After all, if you can make a man feel this way about you, guess who he is going to keep coming back to?
YOU!
Here are some tips on how to talk to a man and get much closer to him at the same time:
1. Choose topics that are not too girlie. Let's be honest, here. Men are not exactly known to be dying to talk about style and fashion and things like that. So, guess where his mind is going to wander off to when you start talking about these kinds of things? Anywhere but with you. You need to choose topics that are going to appeal to him, because if you don't he is sure to start tuning you out.
2. Keep the eye contact strong, but subtle. Using your eyes to keep his eyes locked on you takes a little bit of trial and error, but when you get it down just right, you can captivate his attention and watch him kind of get sucked into your world. The reason why you want it to be subtle, is because you don't really want to make him well aware of what you are trying to do. You just want to make it happen.
3. Let him get his words in. One of the really big complaints that you will often hear with a man, especially when he is dealing with an especially talkative woman is how he cannot seem to get in a word edgewise. You need to pause for a moment to let him chime in, or else he is not going to want to keep the conversation going and that will not help you get any closer to him.