Suspecting your spouse of cheating is killing you inside
. You want to believe that they aren't cheating but you have reason to believe otherwise. You desperately want to know the truth so you can tell if your spouse is cheating. In order to know the truth, here are the top 3 signs your spouse is unfaithful: Making excuses. If you and your spouse used to spend so much time together and now he or she is making up excuses to avoid intimacy or to "hang out with their friends" then you can suspect them of cheating. If they don't want to be intimate anymore then it is probably because they are getting their action elsewhere. If they are spending more time with their "friends", they are lying to you and actually going to see that person. Distance. You can tell when your spouse is distracted by something and when something is on their mind. If this is happening more often now, then you can guarantee that they are cheating on you. Next time you and your spouse are together and they seem "spaced out" then you need to start asking some serious questions. Follow them. If your partner is leaving for the night or they are going to be at work late, go and see what is up. If you suspect them of cheating, then you deserve to know the truth. You should follow them as they leave the house or go to their work and see if they are actually there. If they aren't where they say they are going to be, then you can bust them of being unfaithful right then and there.