How to get the best from your videochat sex adveture
How to get the best from your videochat sex adveture
The first thing to remember when you enter a performer's room is that whether a paid up member or a participant in free chat, you are in every sense of the word...a guest . The performer is entitled to expect certain standards of behaviour from everyone in the room and also entitled to remove you from the room if you do not respect the boundaries they have set.
- Next, the one piece of advice that may make you the guest that every performer wants in their room. Remember that performers are people. Don't treat them like pieces of meat in the butcher's window. Talk to them as real people and you will often be surprised by the fascinating and vibrant personalities that abound in these rooms.
- Every performer will run their room according to their own individual style. So it is important you find the performer whose room and style are right for you. Don't spend time in a performer's room telling them to do things differently. Most performers response to those type of comments in free chat will be to tell you to go and watch someone else...the fact is they are absolutely correct. Whilst you may not find what is happening in the room to your particular taste...there obviously are other guests there who are very satisfied and dont want the performer to change. Check your negativity at the chat room door...if you arent enjoying it, say a polite goodbye and go somewhere else.
- Which brings me to the begging! If there is one thing that gets very tired, not only for performers, but also for members and guests in a performer's room, it is the constant begging for nudity and masturbation in free chat. Lets get it out in the open right here and now...performers can be penalised with loss of money and also suspension of their right to perform on a site if they disobey the rules and show nudity and/or overt sex acts in freechat. There are a couple of reasons...first of all to protect underage surfers who may access freechat and also of course, to ensure that guests will take them private and pay for the services that are being offered. It doesnt really matter what the reason is...performers will be penalised if they are caught. Of course many will say..."but I've seen someone else do it"...certainly it happens, but inevitably the performer will be caught and penalised. Dont forget ...the integrity demonstrated by a performer in abiding by the rules in the contract they have signed can also be an indicator of how they will treat you as a member or guest. In the end, if you use these services, you know the deal...its "pay to play".
- Surprises can be fun too. There are times when a performer will put themselves out for you in freechat and perhaps you would like to say thankyou. Don't forget that if you are a member and have credits in your account, you can "tip" or "surprise" the performer. For example...say you have a little foot fetish...if a performer is happy to show you their feet in freechat to satisfy your fetish, why not say thankyou by sending them a surprise? I have seen gay men send a surprise to straight male performers to say thank you for making them welcome in freechat, room regulars tip to say thanks for playing a favourite song...and once again, treating a performer like a real person, showing that you appreciate what they do for you is all a part of forming good relationships and having a great experience.
Overall, using live adult sex chat services is pretty much like any other situation involving guys, girls, conversation, foreplay and down and dirty sex...just slightly disconnected by the fact that you may be thousands of miles apart or however close, never in the same room with your chosen partner.
So, employ the same basic rules of social etiquette that you would in a face to face meeting with a potential lover at a party at their house and you'll always get a much more satisfying result at the end of the encounter!!
Be nice to yourself and to others and have fun...