I Want My Husband Back-help Save My Marriage

Think about why you split up in the first place

. Was it your fault, his, or both your faults? Sometimes its hard to tell whose fault it was because so many little things seemed to contribute to the break up.

If theres no obvious reason like one of you had an affair or somehow betrayed the other, then there s a better chance that your mantra of, I want my husband back will work out!

If there was an affair or a really big and hurtful problem like that, getting back together will be more of a challenge. But you can still do it, if you both want it and you both work hard at it. If you both dont want it, its pretty unlikely that it will happen.

Have you asked your husband if hes interested in getting back together? Do you even know his feelings about it? You might be surprised to find that while youre saying, I want my husband back! hes not that desperate to get back into the relationship.

That doesnt mean that he doesnt care about you, by the way. Just that something in the relationship wasnt right for him and hes no longer afraid to admit that. As bad as that sounds, it doesnt mean that the relationship cant be fixed.

If you can get him onboard and willing to try some of these techniques, try reading a book about marriage problems out loud to each other over breakfast or in the evening before bed. If youre reading it at the same time, then its easier for you to discuss what youve just read while its all fresh on your mind.

Dont be upset or alarmed if he doesnt have any interest in going to counseling. While this does make it harder to get your man back, it can still be done. You can go to the counseling on your own and learn the techniques you need to communicate with him properly.

You can teach him these techniques, either overtly (here, let me show you) or covertly, by simply using them every time you interact. Even if he has no interest in learning anything you learned in class, the very act of doing the exercises yourself can give you a sense of power you didnt have before.

Going to the counseling can make you feel like you have some power in the relationship, and can influence it either for the better or the worse. And since youre alone with the counselor you can talk about some private issues that bother you, as well. Soon, I want my husband back could turn into, I got my husband back.

by: mik harradine

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