The last step is all about being patient. Getting your ex boyfriend or girlfriend to take you back isn't going to be a quick and easy process. There isn't any one thing that you can say or do that will magically make them leap back into your arms the next time you see them. As you are applying the first two steps, remember to exercise patience. Not every attempt that you make will bare fruit, but keep at it. Most importantly, be flexible with your ex as you work at this process as pressuring them will not benefit you in your efforts.