I cheated and lied to my wife how do I get her to trust me again
I cheated and lied to my wife how do I get her to trust me again
Marriage is such a old institution and you need to be really commited to the relationship in order to make it work. What is the point in taking vows when you are not going to adhere to them.
Infidelity only occurs when you think the grass is greener on the other side and when the ego needs to be patted and stroked because you are not getting this at home.
Other things to take in to consideration are feelings, does this not matter to you? Yes, there are nice packages out there but you can unwrap the package and find a dud but the package you have at home you can unwrap and you will be really surprised and happy because this is the one that you have chosen yourself to spend your life with through thick and thin.
Sex is an all consuming emotion, the physical need to have it satisfied especially being a male because of the appendage you have also comes down to a bodily function. Most women do not realise when a male has an erection and can not use it, the male finds that it can be very painful to return to its normal state.
Trust is what you gain when you have been dating and now married. You really need to get into perspective what you want, do you want to remain married or sow your seeds in greener pastures?
If it is the latter then see a counselor who has a lot of experience in this sort of thing, talk to your wife about it so she can see how serious you are, even take her along with you.