If Venus & Mars was so good, how come I cannot find my guy?

If Venus & Mars was so good, how come I cannot find my guy

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It is not unknown to people how in our society there seems to be a specific look that men find more attractive and appealing in women. This specific look represent a stereotype , a kind of model, which other women could follow in order to capture men and begin the love story that they have always dreamt of. The question, though, is whether outer appearances and looks really matter that much when they do fall in love. Some women make the mistake of focusing too much on looks that they completely forget that character and attitude also matter. For others, it is much worsethey completely change who they are just to fit the specific stereotype of beauty. There seems to be a certain type of desperation that plagues a huge part of the population of women in our society. One that happens when women start to fear time and fear that they might never really discover and experience married love.

If there is anything that women must never forget throughout their search for Mr. Right, it is that while looks matter at first glance, the thing that will make any man fall in love is what is beneath the surface. Physical attributes could only get you so far. After a while, the fascination with physical appearance slowly wanes. The factor that men would win the guy over and complete own him lies with your character. Needless to say, men do not exactly fall in love with the use of their eyes alone. While many women would find this surprising, after some time, men actually consider long-term factors in choosing their lady. Love is a very complicated thing. It is not comprised of a single factor alone, and thus there must always be a balance between what is physical and what is inside. Psychologically speaking, women who tend to focus too much on looks forget the importance of intellectual and emotional connection altogether. If you want to capture men and make them fall in love truly, even after the initial infatuation has faded, you must not get too wound up in changing how you look and how you are. While it is true that most men would lust and fantasize over hot doll-like women, at the end of the day, they still admit that lusting over this specific type does not necessarily mean that they could fall in love with them that easy. Surprisingly, men find natural and more-carefree girls better. Men would rather choose a woman who is comfortable with her skin and who proudly wears her flaws as battle scars as their lifetime partners than go for the overrated sexy types. As much as the stereotype contradicts, men are not as shallow as they seem.

When looking for to find a man, it is best that you don't pretend to be someone you are not. The way to capture men is by simply being you, clich as that may sound. Besides, wouldn't you want a man to fall in love with who you really are, warts and all, than just with who you pretend to be?

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