Intimate Partner Homicide - Domestic Violence As An Accident On Purpose

We hear about it and see it on the news routinely: "Man kills woman."..."It was an accident."

An accident is a defense, not a description of domestic violence. Domestic abuse is never an accident. Now of course one may say, "I didn't know she was going to die when I beat her to death."

But that's not the point. The minute you violate another person verbally, emotionally or physically, domestic violence is in play and so is the crime being committed.

Abusers and their defense attorneys take the "accident" defense, because it is all they have when the perpetrator, victim and incident are known. The accident card is the only thing left for them to stand behind in their effort to lessen the consequences.

The Anatomy of an Accident

An accident is something that happened without being planned, without being premeditated. It's often avoided by other actions and reactions being taken...and may or may not be predicted.

It's always unfortunate when it happens, and in some cases the accident that occurred can be a blessing in disguise. This, of course, depends on the outcomethat is the accident casualties.

An accident usually carries with it a lesson that awakens those involved, as well as bystanders looking in. The lesson teaches how to avoid such an accident again.

The Anatomy of Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a violation of one person over-powering another person. The actual violation is the execution of the "action"..."behavior" that serves to disempower and control the victim.

It can be subtle, as it most commonly is, or it can be a heinous crime as in the case of intimate partner homicide. The specific abusive behavior may erupt out of a dispute between two intimate partners, or may emerge out of the perpetrator's perception of their not getting their way.

Like an accident, it is always unfortunate because someone is being violated, compromised and hurt. The only blessings it can bring are when the victim gets away...before it spirals out of control.

Domestic Violence Strikes Again Without Responsibility

Defense attorneys have a job to defend their clients whether they have committed the crime in question or not. The defendant has a constitutional right to a defense. Most people know this and appreciate this fact.

However, let it be known that as we provide a defense for domestic violence, we send a message to the perpetrator and to those looking in that domestic violence can be an accident. The implication is that the perpetrator is not responsible for his violent abusive behavior. And until full responsibility is assumed, domestic violence will strike again.

Now, I realize that putting forth such a defense is not so simple, but to the masses a simple lesson is learned. And this lesson teaches abusers that they are not responsible for the outcome of their violations toward their victim. It teaches that the outcome of their violence is out of their hands.

If you are watching news of an intimate partner homicide, be mindful to separate criminal law from personal responsibility when domestic violence is in play.

by: Dr Jeanne King PhD

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