Is Compatibility The Most Important Aspect Of A Relationship?

Technically, and I mean in relation to computer hardware or software

, compatibility indicates towards different levels of a successful partnership. A printer is defined as compatible with your desk top if it can function smoothly when connected to the pc. A program is said to be compatible if it can function on the operating system on your pc. Compatibility between a couple of devices that are similar exists if they display the same reaction to the same command.

This amazing abstract noun has similar connotations with reference to human relationships too! Compatibility is the most pivotal aspect that keeps any partnership going. Physical, emotional mental and intellectual compatibility"?? there are so many parameters where the partners would like to match each other. A marriage is deemed successful if compatibility levels are high.

When you and your partner laugh at the same joke, when you enjoy the same kind of outdoor sports, when you share the same passion for reading, when your take on various issues match beautifully, it means you are one of the lucky ones who found the ideal partner.

But what if your tastes do not match? What if you love classical music and your husband prefers heavy metal? What if you love to eat out and he wants home cooked meals every day? What if he loves to travel and you prefer to delve into a virtual world of social networking on the Internet? Does it spell danger for the relationship? Of course it doesn"??t! I know of many couples who are poles apart in their attitudes, likes and dislikes, but are ever so happily married.

The essence of their successful relationship is acceptance of and regard for each other"??s individuality. Beth (name changed) loves playing the violin. Her husband, Luke (name changed) neither understands nor can stand the sound of the instrument. She enjoys visiting her aged parents living nearby, while Luke would rather improve the landscaping of their pretty garden.

They plan their days in a manner that they get to do what they want and enjoy, besides spending sufficient quality time with each other. That is when they discuss future plans, go out shopping, exchange anecdotes about how the day went for each of them, and seek each other"??s opinion and advice about issues. They worked out these strategies because both of them wanted their marriage to work

I know several people who discontinued relationships citing "??incompatibility"?? as the reason. Would you still want your marriage to work even if you feel you are "??incompatible"??? Are you at a loss for a way to pick up the loosening threads of the relationship and to weave them back into a happy partnership?

Today there are several ways you can find help to put back your marriage where you want it to be. But sometimes you may want to figure out the solution for your problem without confiding to another person. That is where books can help you. Reading an excellent book can genuinely help you fall back on the right track to marital happiness.

by: Nice'n'wise

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