Have you a solid marriage or are you having some problems
? You all think that everything is good with your marriage but there could be somethings laying under the surface that would surprise you. Most of these might be small problems that you can fix yourself and then some of them might be so bad that you will have to find someone to help. You should try to spend as much quality time together as possible but also give each other their own time alone. You never want to make the other feel smothered. If you happen to do this you could find yourself in a bunch of fights. Some of your problems might not be from fights.
These problems might be from the cheating of one of you against the other. Then you might find that one of you has a gambling problem that you might not have even known was there. You might even find out about a child that was hidden or only showed up out of the blue. There are so many things that can come up and put your relationship or marriage in a tail spin. It is important for the both of you to work at any problem that might come up and find the best way to fix it. It is not a good idea to let these problems build up as they tend to pile up and could become out of control.
You then might have to deal with the problems with your jobs. If both of you have one try not to let these jobs control your lives. One might have to work a lot of hours and then the other might not work enough. You then might find problems with who is making more money. This is usually the men but this is not always the case. With more of you women working this problem can come up more often.
Never try to take on more then you might be able to handle. Taking on more responsibility than you can handle be it a new marriage or old can also put a snag on your lives. Getting into debt over your shoulders can happen rather quick there-fore putting strain on you. Putting so much strain on either of you that you will start to fight thinking that this will help. It will only make things worse. It is wise to take on only one thing at a time and try not to take on anything else until that one is done. This is kind of hard but doing this will keep down the stress. If you come against any of these problems and you know that you will not be able to handle them then get some professional help.