Let Forgiveness be the Christmas Miracle for Your Cheating Wife and Your Marriage

Let Forgiveness be the Christmas Miracle for Your Cheating Wife and Your Marriage

Christmas is the season for many miracles. If your wife is cheating it is the perfect time of year for forgiveness to be your Christmas miracle. The future of your marriage may very well hinge upon how you react to the news of your wife's cheating. While no one expects you to take news like this is in stride there are reactions that can do far more harm for the sake of your marriage than others.

Offering forgiveness, as difficult as it may be, is one of the best possible reactions to the news of your wife's cheating. Here are a few things you can keep in mind to make forgiveness a little easier to come by in this season of miracles.

1) Forgiveness is divine. In fact, Christmas is all about forgiveness. The symbol of a baby in a manger who would one day represent forgiveness in full for millions of people around the world is what this season is all about. There are few better symbols of forgiveness throughout history and none that represent the spirit of the holidays any better.

2) Forgiveness is a gift you can give yourself as well. Forgiveness should not end with your cheating wife. You need to forgive yourself during this forgiving season as well. Stop blaming yourself for what has happened. Don't beat yourself up over what could have been or what has been. Instead, forgive yourself and turn your eyes forward to face the future. No marriage can be successful for long if it's living in the past. Find new ways to love your wife and forgive her and yourself for the misdeeds and wrong steps of the past.

3) Forgiveness removes the roadblocks that could be holding your marriage back. Forgiveness can be an albatross that keeps your marriage reliving the past over and over again. As I've already mentioned your marriage has no future if it's dwelling on the past. Forgiveness cuts the cords to the past, so to speak, and allows you both to turn your attention towards making the future a happier period in your marriage.

Miracles abound throughout the holiday season. Love is one of the greatest gifts we can give one another. After you found out your wife was cheating it might be hard to let go and let yourself love again but by forgiving her you are taking one giant leap in the right direction.

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