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It would be good if there were such a thing as a married couple who never had troubles

, however merely because of the fact that we are all unique persons who believe in different ways, there will never be a relationship that doesn't experience troubles from time to time. It doesn't really matter how close the both of you are or how wonderful your relationship is, the truth is at times you will experience problems between you.

That being said, couples in strong marriages have generally figured out how to solve the problems that do occur before they bring about true damage to the marriage. The following problems are several that can wreck a relationship if not taken care of and are signs that the relationship requires some help.

My partner and I make a point of spending time together and if you and your spouse do not do the same, your relationship will suffer. I'm not talking about being in the same room together. I mean really spending time enjoying each others company and conversation. It is nice to take pleasure in time together with friends, however time together alone is important. This is the way you stay united mentally and makes you want to connect physically.

The talk part is often the detail that causes couples to stumble and it's not surprising that communication problems are an additional sign that the marriage relationship is not in the place it ought to be. You may well believe that you're communicating, however if you can't recall the most recent time the two of you talked about something other than your house or children, you almost certainly ought to go to work on making communication better. True communication keeps you in tune with each other and keeps you connected.

The word intimacy by its very definition suggests closeness. A relationship that is lacking in physical intimacy is deficient in the closeness that only comes by way of physical touch. It is usually also a marriage that is subject to one or the other of the partners becoming involved in an affair. By our very nature we desire physical intimacy. A relationship can not be a solid one when physical intimacy is missing. In relationships where one partner because of illness or accident becomes incapable to physically have intimate relations, the couples who still maintain intimacy by means of cuddling, kissing and touching are the ones whose marriage will survive the inability to have actual physical relations. No other thing should send you looking for assistance with your marriage quicker than a decline or absolute lack of physical intimacy.

Although there may not be any trouble free marriages, you will find some couples which are in a better position to cope with troubles than other couples. If you recognize yourself in any of the above situations, I guarantee you your relationship with your spouse isn't as good as it might be. Step up the amount of time you are spending together alone and spend some of that time talking about your hopes and dreams. The result of this should be better physical and emotional intimacy and a much better and stronger marriage.

by: Dena Tilson

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